Praise Positive Behavior
What encourages a kid more than his or her parents’ approval? The right word at the right time can strengthen the bond
that helps keep your child away from drugs. Emphasize the things your kid does right and restrain the urge to be critical.
Try to:
Reward good behavior consistently and immediately. Expressions of love, appreciation and thanks go a long way. Even kids who
think themselves too old for hugs will appreciate a pat on the back or a special treat.
Accentuate the positive. Emphasize the things your kid does right. Rein in the urge to be critical. Affection
and respect that make your teen feel good about himself will reinforce good (and change bad) behavior far more successfully than
embarrassment or uneasiness.
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